If I'm entirely honest I don't know that I might not just want a bit of sex for now.Although I have only ever been with XH consensually.Online sites seem harsh but I'm just wondering what tips you all might have for me.
I've not really 'dated' as such (the couple or three formal 'dates' I've been on in my life were pretty tragic! I've been separated for almost 18 months, haven't dated in over 15 years and the thought of putting my 40 something self out there terrifies me. I think confidence counts for more than your age or size. He is smart, funny, 6'4" and looks like a 1940s film star.Guys would be surprised because I looked like my photo, they would say that ladies would put up photos ten years younger and fifteen kilos lighter. A site like eharmony could be good, less brutal than the free sites.I had a friend of mine try and she is heavier and had success.That's probably not the issue you should be focusing on at the moment though.There are specialist dating sites for heavier women because that is some men's preferences.