Once you become aware of the patterns of your family of origin, you can change them.
It’s not easy, but individual and couple counseling can free a spouse from repeating destructive behaviors.
Take the time to explore what you learned about life, love, and conflict in your family of origin so that you can understand how this influences your current relationship – for better and for worse.
Today, I read a comment on one of our older posts that really alarmed me.
I adored him and though I was scared at first, I never once regretted losing my virginity to him.
Senator expresses doubts industry can enforce ESRB ratings--asks for legislation that will make selling M- or AO-rated games to minors a federal crime; Rockstar, ESA, ESRB respond.But then you notice that your spouse is a “relaxed” housekeeper and the clutter he or she finds tolerable is starting to get on your nerves.You find comfort in returning to your own “relatively organized” space.Instead of explaining the entire situation to you guys, I think it’s easier to post the comment here.Since it’s a pretty long comment, I took out a few parts and left what I felt was most important in regards to this post.